How to start a conversation, when we think what
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Every happened to the guest or host various social events - parties, formal dinner party. There are times when if you take off the tongue, our head is empty and does not know how to start a conversation with someone you really want to know and impress.
- Imagine, just tell the name. Give a hand to shake, squeeze the man's hand hard and not slack and relaxed.
- Look around. Decide if there is something interesting that attracts attention and deserves to be discussed. The theme of time is a cliche, but if there is anything unusual about it as unusual for the season temperatures, winds and rains, use them as a conversation topic. Before you pop the event, cast an eye on the latest news and interesting events of the day, some of them can become a great topic of conversation.
- Make a compliment. But do not tell someone that has a great hairstyle if it find it disgusting. Instead, find something - shoes, bag, earrings, tie, who really likes you and say it sincerely to their owner. A sincere compliment is a great way to get acquainted with someone. But be careful with compliments on the face and body of man, because they may be double-edged sword, if the person does not like this part of your body.
- Ask questions. Most people love to talk about themselves, are prone to do so. Do not talk too much about yourself, not to create the impression that you are self-centered narcissus. "Have you seen so-and-so movie?", "Have you read So-and-her-what book?", "What do you think about .....?" Ask questions that predispose to a long and circumstantial answers. For example, "Great bag , where do you buy? "And then the woman can tell a whole story - when she saw it, what is interesting happened the day he went to the store, how he behaved clerk, etc. If you simply say "I like your watch," one will respond with "thank you" and the conversation will end. Beware, however, do not get into too personal territory and your caller feel intimidated by your curiosity. Avoid discussing politics, religion, love affairs and old people who do not know or know well recently.
- Watch his interlocutor in the eye. Maintaining eye contact is very important to win people's trust. Also, contact the caller by name, so it will draw attention to what you speak. Smile often and laugh when the other person makes you a witty remark.
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On the occasion of seeing the interlocutor in the eye I would add: If you are worried about someone looking in your eyes, watch the tip of his nose, no one will notice. Try the store with a stranger or a seller. If you watch the strange, then everything is fine.
Me not at all difficult for me to start a conversation, unless I fear to a person!