How can she say that like it
To break up with her boyfriend is never easy, but there are little rules that will make the separation more painless
- Talk to the girl with the intention of a more quiet and private place to no scenes. Avoid crowded places like schools, cinema and coupons. Choose a neutral territory for both, as in the park. Do not do it in your home because it would have felt too humiliated and cast out.
- Think about the things you dislike about her. Does she puts her friends before you? Too nahalna you? Is it gossip?
- Take a deep breath and explain her situation openly and clearly. Be polite but firm and decisive. Try to be as accurate as possible when you referred to-problem.
- Give her some time to answer your question. Maybe she'll deny that acted as you say, or be excused for their behavior.
- Carefully listen to her reasoning Maybe give you a sincere response and remain friends.
- One more to a story that you really het up. And if you find that this continues to happen every time, despite your comments, then proceed to the next step.
- When you stop talking, explain it, it happens first, and then continuously and gently tell her: "I'm not sure that this friendship can last longer."
- Proceed as what happens during the call. Your call may end with forgiveness and reconciliation. Or with the separation, as you intended in the beginning.
- Do not settle for long. Once you say what you wanted and you gave her the opportunity to respond and to express anger, sadness and disappointment, tell her she must leave her and Wish all good.
- Take a break very clear and unambiguous. She did not leave empty hopes he has a chance someday be together again. Some people think it is a softer way to break the girl, but it also torturing her even more, leaving each day to wait and hope that you will be again.
- Be nice all the time, whatever happens.
- Never speak ill of her. However, it was your choice and vilification of its address, and talk bad about you. Gossip and insults will not lead to anything positive. If someone tells you that she has a new, great boyfriend, simply reply that it is happy for her and want to be happy.
Tricks
- Look into her eyes and did not allow it to look down or sideways and you prinebregva.
- Do not allow to change the subject and to quibble. If you experience immediately return to the question.
- Never say directly to the girl: "I do not like." This is not the correct approach would make it hurt too much.
- Decides to break with it without you consider good cause. Wrong to break with it because you do not like her hairstyle, her friends think, or because of crazy laugh too hard - like Janice from "Friends" for example :)
Don't worry, be happy!
